Ground Down or Polished Up?
* The Ability To See The Big Picture.
If you can't see what you are doing now as part of a long-range
goal, you'll wear out. Imagine how long an athlete would be able
to endure the pain of practice if they couldn't see the game in
their mind's eye. Imagine how long a farmer would endure the hot
sun of summer toil if he could not envision the harvest of fall.
* The Ability To Defuse Worry.
I'm convinced that it's not the work of life, but the worry of
life that robs so many of their strength and breaks down their
resolve. The only sure-fire remedy for worry is confidence.
Worry consists of creating mental pictures of what you do not
want to happen. Confidence is creating mental pictures of what
you want to happen.
Any golfer who has ever stood on one side of a water hazard
thinking, don't hit it in the water, don't hit it in the water,
can describe the result of the former. You'll be going wading
very shortly! Good golfers have learned the knack of shaking off
the last shot, good or bad, and approaching the next one with
confidence. The same goes for leaders.
* The Willingness To Quit Seeking Security.
A ship that never leaves the harbor is safe, but that's not what
ships are for. Too often we are devastated by failure that could
have almost been predicted. The willingness to make mistakes,
lots of them, is one of the prices we must pay for the
advancement of a worthy cause.
* The Ability To Gauge When Enough's Enough.
No one expects their car to run forever without stopping to fill
the fuel tank, but when it comes to our physical body, we
foolishly refuse to stop when its time to rest, refuel, and
recreate. I believe that too much of the wearing down I see is
* The Wisdom To Choose Your Associates.
Most of us have far more choices than we think when it comes to
the company we keep. Even when we must work with negative
people, we can choose to avoid being reduced to their level.
Life is hard enough without having to go through it with
negative, critical, or lazy people.
Ground down or polished up? The choice is
really yours to determine.
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AFE Chapter 26 - Serving Greater St. Louis Area, USA